February 25th, 2017

You Are Enough

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Life can test our strength to see the good in others when their actions have impacted us.
If you find yourself being impacted by emotions be kind to yourself.
Don`t take on board their emotions as it will not serve you. You cannot change the choice or the impact it has only the owner is able to control their actions.
You may like to look at it from the other person side.
See that they had no choice than to do what they did even though it has impacted others.
Everyone make choices for their highest good for themselves.
This may not always work for you.
Saying to yourself I send them all the strength and love to help them with their situation.
Some don`t always make the right choices.
But you do have a choice.
You can choose to ignore and walk away, if you are not going to see or be impacted by this person furthermore.
If you are in a situation that will allow this to continue you may like to make some plans to find a solution. (short term pain long term gain)
Check yourself first and see if this is all in your head or is it factual.
Pick your battles, some things are just not worth the time and energy.
You may like to have a gentle conversation with the person to let them know how you are feeling. They may not be aware of the implications of their behaviour.
Some may see this as conflict when it is communication if the conversation is not blaming or condescending. Using the words, I feel I am.
You have a choice to leave or stay. If you stay out of duty you may wish to look at your values for yourself. You deserve the respect you give to others.
Life can throw some curve balls at us but it is our choice what we do with them.
Build the confidence within yourself to have the confidence to communicate for your highest good.
You are unique there is no one quite like you so don’t copy and follow others.