Worried about what others are saying?

Worried about what others are saying?

Are you saying yes when in your head you are screaming NO?
Are you afraid of saying what you feel in case you offend?
Do you feel like you are being judged?
Do you agree with people even though you have a different view?
Are you self sabotaging your dreams?
You’re not alone!

The facts of life are. We can only control our own thoughts and actions and not the actions of others.  You can make a choice to rise above the negativity and gain power over your life. It’s your life to live and your power to choose.

Get Real with who you enjoy your time with. Don’t be naive and see the world through rose coloured glasses if you have friends who love to run their friends down behind their backs to you. This is a Warning sign they are probably doing the same about you with their other friends. I once had a friend who did this and I thought no she thought differently of me until I heard it with my own ears.  These kinds of friend you don’t need.

Finding a balance is vital for a healthy lifestyle. It can be challenging with some people who can be incredibly persuasive and can leave you feeling like a piece of Swiss cheese. And if you are a people pleaser you jump on that tread mill and lose the chance of being your authentic self.

Being true to your self can take practise and courage. Life is a journey of self discovery and growth so don’t feel like you need to be perfect give yourself room to grow and learn. It’s ok to make mistakes along the way. Mistakes are an opportunity`s to grow and learn and be the best version you can be.

@ Wired 4 Success It`s all about the 3 “C”

Choice> Challenge> Change

Be the most Courageous you can be!


What are you going to choose?
 Choose Plan A
∞Be courageous
∞Live without regrets
∞Feel no fear
∞Let worry and anxiety live elsewhere
∞Be energised by your ideas and plans
∞Believe in the good in others
∞Value yourself
∞Get excited and passionate
∞Live a powerful life of choice.
Or Choose Plan B
Live life in fear of the unknown
Don’t take chances
Hold grudges have no voice
Watch your back
Listen and believe negativity
That’s enough for me.


I’m sure you will want to be the best version of yourself you can be by choosing plan A.


To get you started take the first 5 steps below.

1.                 Listen to the way you talk to yourself and others, internally and externally.  Are you                                   verbally abusing yourself? Are you speaking to yourself like you speak to others?
2.                 Start a tool box book (journal) I will blog about this soon and you will be able to take my                           course on creating a tool box book.
3.                 Book in on your calendar or diary time each week for self nurturing and discovery.
4.                 Book 30mins a day for yourself. Do what you enjoy. Could be even having a coffee or going                      for a walk.
5.                  Acknowledge and accept all your flaws.   (Learn to embrace and love who you are)

 If you would like support to identify your blocks and challenge different thought patterns and create permanent positive change for success. Please feel free to contact Wired 4 Success Life Coaching.